Inner Work For Couples & Families
Hear from Julia about Dyad Work
“We came to Julia at a complete loss for how to get out of our entrenched parent-child dynamic. We were both resentful, easily triggered, and not hearing each other. But we can hear each other now. If you are looking for help finding your way to a more vulnerable, open, caring, and loving connection with your partner, Julia has the acumen and skills to get you there. We can’t recommend her enough and continue to recommend her to so many of our friends.”
__ Phoenix & Iris”
How to begin
I will be available to accept new clients for Dyad work in two weeks. (This comment is updated regularly.) If you’d like to reserve some time, please request a session or interview via the button below.
Single Sessions are $200.
Pre-Paid Bundles of 5 Sessions are $900.
Dyad Sessions are 80-minutes long.
Request A Dyad Session Or Complimentary Interview
Learning Compassion & Non-Reactivity In Relationship
Partnerships are complicated. They contain many different relationships within one relationship — deep friendship, intimacy, the domestic and financial relationship, and potentially parenting, creative collaboration, and career.
Our intimate relationships and family relationships also tend to awaken our deepest vulnerabilities and fears.
My approach with pairs is to help each of you see more clearly what is going on within yourself and the other, as well as how you are affecting the other — however innocent that may be. Meanwhile, I’ll help you cultivate the skills of compassion, non-reactivity, and clear communication (which comes from clearer self-awareness) so that all terrains of your relationship can be navigated with more grace, ease, and generosity.
"We both found Julia to be a safe and fair place to unpack a history with a fair amount of hurt and resentments. She helped us go through the slow and patient process of forgiveness and rebuilding trust. We both feel we came away from our work with Julia as more aware and more compassionate individuals, which has had a positive effect on our lives in general and all of our relationships. Julia is a very wise person. We are grateful for her work with us and highly recommend Julia for help improving and strengthening any relationship.”
_ B & D Devos
"We came to Julia because we were triggering each other all the time. Our two personalities are fundamentally opposite. I’m quite introverted. My partner is quite extroverted. And while in the beginning, our opposite personalities were what attracted us to each other, at some point this mutual admiration turned into an inability to feel met or accepted, or to understand one another. Julia helped each of us reawaken our genuine appreciation for the gifts the other brought to the relationship — something we learned from Julia to see as an entity between us, for us to mutually care for. Now, Josh and I are able to learn from each other, while also accepting and appreciating our differences. We really can’t thank Julia enough for helping us not only save our relationship but to truly strengthen it. There were times when our misunderstandings would escalate so quickly, and somehow Julia was able to see how it all happened and slow us down enough so we could see it too. Julia has a gift for seeing dynamics, for creating trust, for communicating clearly, and for teaching the art of vulnerable and authentic communication.”
__ Amanda & Josh
""I came to Julia looking for help mending my relationship with my daughter. I had a tendency to be overprotective. And while I thought I was sending a message of love and care by trying to help her, it turns out that my daughter was receiving a message that she wasn’t smart enough or capable enough to do things herself. With Julia’s help, I’ve learned to let go, and my daughter has learned to take more responsibility for her choices. We’ve both learned how to communicate better, which has helped with all of our relationships. I admire Julia, and I feel so good knowing my daughter, who now works with Julia individually, has a role model like her in her life. I couldn't be more grateful to Julia for all the ways in which she has touched our lives.”
__Stacy & Daughter
